Basically, an act of service could look like anything from switching the laundry, to starting dinner, to making the bed in the morning, depending on the person you’re doing this for.

If Acts of Service is your significant other’s love language, look for ways to lighten their load, says psychologist ., a frequent lecturer on The 5 Love Languages and co-author with Chapman.

If your love language is acts of service, don't worry, you're not a nag. Experts explain what it means and how to feel more loved and supported by your partner.

These small acts of service and random acts of kindness for kids can make a huge difference, for both the giver and the receiver. And that’s true whether you’re nine or 99.