To demonstrate that you truly appreciate the other person, think of a specific example to illustrate how helpful they have been. Share the consequences of their actions.

You have been referred to a position and wish to identify the company referral If an application explicitly states you should not include a cover letter, then do not.

I've been thinking about you, and I'm wondering how you're doing." Don't shy away from the reality of the situation, especially if this letter is coming a bit out of the blue.